Hello,
The above is a question I long have passed it on via e-mail to my female friends.
It started as it goes:
Before we get married, we tend to choose some one, if monogamous, by being in a single relationship. For some, this selction method takes years, for others takes few months. During this period, we get to know the selected person via various levels, sexual, strengths, weakness, happiness, sadness, etc. It goes till the moment that we finally decide to commit to this person for the rest of our lives. for some it sounds horible, but for few in 21st century sound a unique experiance. Ok, now the question starts:
If we know all this aspects before we get married, or carry a coupled life, what exciting is about the rest of it?
I think that relationship is tabula rasa, from the time we say the first hello, and to the time we are getting married or starting a coupled life, and it goes on.
My friends mentions, that this is more complicated, so depends on your experiences so far in life!
I let you be the one who thinks further and make a decision.
a.a.