Stress!

Is it losing hair, is it getting it white, or losing a breast due to cancer. Alternatively, does stress constantly induced or felt, just by not knowing. Which one is it?
Things that we are not fully in control of, things that appears during time, during normal aging! Or is stress being single or being married. I guess this coin has two sides. Losing hair or getting it white is seen as a weakness of the genetic make-up. So do other factors. So are we aging because of our weakness, being our genetic make-up, which is our inaptness to stressful passage of time. On the other hand, is it our response to this stressor?
I am told that love, makes one blind, so being blind maybe would actually help. So being in love is the cure to this aging process. I explain, so being in love makes you blind to the event that happens near you and so is the antidote to stress. Therefore, we should age longer, or at all minimally aged.
The idea is there, but how can we prove it? I think being in love, is just one-way to figure this thing out.
I am going for onec, think that this antidote can be different than other anti-aging procedures. What do you think?